Life is hard.
I know, that is not a big revelation that is going cause people to gasp when they read it. But, it’s true. Life is hard. People get cancer. People lose loved ones to death. People get divorced. We fight and bicker and don’t get along with each other over the pettiest things. We war and drop bombs on each other. We cause strife and we gossip and we lie about each other. We struggle against lust and pornography. We struggle against alcohol and drugs. We struggle against weight. We don’t like our jobs.
Before you accuse me of being a “glass is half-empty” kind of guy, I am not saying all of life is hard. There are good times. There are good experiences. There are blessings from God. But, we must admit as Christians, that life is sometimes hard and that God seemingly allows it to be that way. So, it’s a good thing to contemplate the areas in which we struggle to see if God is trying to reveal anything to us.
I don’t know about you, but there are times when I am just plain tired and don’t feel like serving Christ. To admit that truth is hard.There are times that I feel disconnected to God and don’t feel like reading, let alone studying His word. To admit that truth is hard.There are times when I wonder if God is truly interested in what is going on in my life. To admit that truth is hard.
As a man, I struggle with constant bombardment of sexual images that are found on televisions, in magazines, in movies, on billboards and on the Internet everyday. To admit that truth is hard. As a husband, I struggle in the act of spiritual leadership in my marriage. I am committed to it, but it’s hard. To admit that truth is hard. As a pastor, I struggle with balancing the problems in my own life with helping others through the problems of their own lives. To admit that truth is hard. With a truly humble spirit I say the following: Someone like me shouldn’t go through such trials or have such thoughts, right? (WRONG!) I mean, let’s consider who I am. I am a leader in my church, a pastor. I am a leader in my marriage, a husband. I am a follower of Christ, a Christian. My life should be great, all the time! I am going to heaven! I have the Holy Spirit indwelling me even as I write this to you! My sins are forgiven! I am free! I have it all!
But…there are times when I don’t ‘feel’ the truths that I just listed above. There are times when I struggle to understand my ‘dryness’, times when I struggle sensing God’s presence in my life. Of course I realize that my faith isn’t built on emotions or feelings, rather on evidence and truth, but I must confess that in my flesh, I am weak. My flesh causes me to doubt. My flesh causes me to sin. My flesh too often wins the battle against my spirit.
I have been considering lately why God allows Christians to struggle through sin and hardships. Why does He allow us to seemingly drift through stages of our lives when we experience doubt and dryness? I am not trying to break any new ground here, believe me there have been countless Christians throughout the ages that have undergone similar circumstances. The Scriptures are full of examples of God allowing people to go through trials. Does Job ring a bell?
In my service at Compass Bible Church, I serve as a Biblical Counselor. Day in and day out I open up the Scriptures and share with people the truth about who God is and who they are in light of His work on the cross. I implore these people to read and study the Scriptures to learn about the person of God and to discover His will for their lives. I do all this and yet, at times in my own life, I struggle to understand His purpose. At first, that bothered me. But it doesn’t bother me any more. As usual, as we search the Scriptures, God speaks and reveals His Truth and His purposes. Hardships are a part of our journey. Hardships started because of the Fall of Man in Genesis 3:16-19 it is written:
To the woman He said,
"I will greatly multiply
your pain in childbirth,
in pain you will bring forth children;
yet your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you."
Then to Adam He said, "Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, 'You shall not eat from it';
Cursed is the ground because of you;
In toil you will eat of it
All the days of your life.
“Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you;
And you will eat the plants of the field;
By the sweat of your face
You will eat bread,
Till you return to the ground,
Because from it you were taken;
For you are dust,
And to dust you shall return."
But God in His wisdom has allowed another use for hardships outside of the curse. He has utilized hardships as part of the sanctification process for those who believe on Him:
“But you, be sober in all things, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry – 2 Timothy 4:5
“You have made Your people experience hardship” - Psalm 60:3
The Apostle Paul struggled through hardships, probably more than anyone in the Scriptures outside of Christ. But he understood their purpose and wrote the following Truth in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10:
Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me--to keep me from exalting myself! Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness " Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ's sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.”
Here is the deal. God allows hardships in our lives because He loves us and He desires that we would seek Him in all things in order that He may bestow upon us His grace and His will for us. I am not saying that God wants us or causes us to sin in our Christian life. Paul handled that notion in Romans 6, however I am saying that God has made the claim that His grace is sufficient in all circumstances by saying "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9a). I will make this confession, when I think I am strong, I tend not to lean on God or seek Him in my life. In my perceived strength, I have a tendency to go down my own road. However, when I am weak, I seek Him, even if it’s hard, even if I don’t ‘feel’ Him, even when I don’t necessarily hear Him. But because I know His word is true and that He is who He claims to be, when I am experiencing hardship in my life, I can rest assured and know that God is active in my life. I know that I am being given an opportunity to grow closer to Him and to mature in Him. In other words, as Paul writes in 2 Timothy 2:1-3:
“You therefore, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. Suffer hardship with me, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus.






